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So for those of you who also like to dip your toes into the dating pools of both Chinese and western men, here’s a few tips that will help you to hit the ground running, (and into the arms of your beloved).**Phase 1: Getting to know you** **The Western Man:** Good old Sherry Argov, the author of ‘Why Men Love Bitches’ wrote; *“If you start out dependent, it turns him off.But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes more of a challenge for him to get it.”* Wise, wise words.And a principle that is sure to work on the man of your choice, so long as he is a western man that is.Many Chinese men will jump in with two feet from the words ‘I like you’, which some may consider romantic, but others may deem naïve. Once you have fallen for his romantic declaration of love, he will be eagerly awaiting your reply.If you tell him exactly what he wants to hear, he gets the confidence boost he was looking for, and you lose all your power.
For some girls, this can be like all their Valentines Days came at once, but for others it is sheer overkill. Getting Locked Down** **The Western Man:** The old saying teaches us that the key to a man’s heart is through his stomach.**The Chinese Man:** Chinese men, on the other hand, are somewhat peculiarly different.Although they too love competition, they are slightly less aggressive when it comes to getting what they want from a girl.Allow me to elaborate; _Date scenario #1:_ Drinks = He wants to keep things casual._Date scenario #2:_ Watching a football game = He doesn’t care whether you’re there or not.
The western man wants to observe how you fit into his life.